Not sure if this is an asterisk or what. New VM created from distro downloaded from freepbx.org, by default it’s set up with pjsip on port 5160. Chan SIP is disabled but I can only get phones to register on 5060.
I ended up rebooting one more time and then the phones that had been using 5060 to register went offline and everything now seems to work on 5160. No idea what caused this but like the old Nintendo, apparently smacking it and restarting it a few times sometimes fixes the issue. I guess this is resolved now.