Can't connect to XMPP using jabber client

Using XMPP Pro with FreePBX distro 12.0.72.2

I set my domain name in the only setting of the XMPP module (domainname.com)
I’m trying to attach with several jabber clients but none of them are connecting.

I’m using the same login that I use for UCP
I made sure XMPP was enabled for my UCP account

the prosody_debug.log is showing

Nov 08 22:33:44 socket debug server.lua: accepted new client connection from 127.0.0.1:44492 to 5347
Nov 08 22:33:44 jcpcef770 info Incoming Jabber component connection
Nov 08 22:33:44 mod_component info Disconnecting component, stream:error is: stream:errorasterisk.domainname.com does not match any configured external components</stream:error>
Nov 08 22:33:44 jcpcef770 info component disconnected: nil (false)
Nov 08 22:33:44 socket debug server.lua: closed client handler and removed socket from list

I’m also seeing this in the prosody.log file
Nov 08 22:29:19 portmanager error Failed to open server port 5582 on 127.0.0.1, this port is in use by another application
Nov 08 22:29:19 portmanager error Failed to open server port 5280 on *, check that Prosody or a BOSH connection manager is not already running
Nov 08 22:29:19 portmanager error Failed to open server port 5281 on *, this port is in use by another application
Nov 08 22:29:19 portmanager error Failed to open server port 5269 on *, check that Prosody or another XMPP server is not already running and using this port
Nov 08 22:29:19 portmanager error Failed to open server port 5222 on *, check that Prosody or another XMPP server is not already running and using this port
Nov 08 22:29:19 portmanager error Failed to open server port 5347 on 127.0.0.1, this port is in use by another application

not to sure what i could be doing wrong.