Understanding ping

Is there a better way to understand ping
36/45
VS
ping 1/185

Where are you seeing this?

a p2p network showing users connections

I guess it is
PJ/ping with lower pj Values turning into LAG.
Is there any way to controll or set pj Levels?

Google can only come up with “AssaultCube” (identified as a “first-person shooter game”) as a match to your “at first glance” random strings. If this is about which you speak I think you are in the wrong forum, this one is about FreePBX and related voip matters.