FreePBX on VMware Server SIP Trunk connection question

The gateway address is the address where you want all non-specifically directed traffic to go.

Your ISP will give you an IP scheme which you will apply to that second NIC. But do not apply any Gateway, you leave it blank. When your PBX needs to communicate to that network, it will need to be told, which you do through a route statement. A route statement will direct the PBX to send traffic out the second NIC to the ISP