Dialparties.agi and realtime Extensions problem

OK, I know… althought it would be GREAT, unfortunately FreePbx doesn’t support Asterisk Realtime yet as a db… That’s ok, 'cause I use the FreePbx for the serious stuff (Zap trunks, extensions, fax), and the realtime extensions just to set up a sort of web forum community…

UNFORTUNATELY, although my realtime iax_buddies can use the * box and call both extensions and PSTN calls, THEY (the iax_buddies) CANNOT be reached in any way!!

Maybe I’m missing something but I think it’s something to do with the .conf files and the dialparties.agi … I’m just not expert enougth to find discover it…

Any help pls???